My life was essentially perfect
this past summer.
I’d spent the first three
weeks doing everything I’d wanted to. I invested my time in three different camps
that made my heart so happy, and I felt like I finally had my health under control.
After my third and final week serving as
a camp volunteer, like any typical teenage girl, I went and got a coffee at a
local coffee shop with my best friend.
Then everything changed.
After drinking about
three-fourths of said coffee, I got the jitters. Mind you, about a month before
this, I’d stopped drinking caffeine completely. So maybe my body just wasn’t
used to the energy, but – and I know how ridiculous this will sound - my heart
began to race and well, I freaked out. I got the panicky burning sensation,
dizziness, the works.
But it didn’t stop.
I asked to be brought
home, I waited hours for the “caffeine jitters” to pass, but they didn’t and
honestly, that’s when this nightmare all began. The following weeks were filled
with countless doctor’s appointments, three urgent care visits, and one
emergency room visit, because the jitters just never went away.
During this time period, I
essentially wasted away. My heartrate was incredibly fast all the time, I had
shortness of breath, my heart often skipped beats, I was experiencing blood
sugar crashes, I was so weak, and worst of all: I lost over fifteen pounds. At
my worst, I weighed 100 pounds.
The Cardiologist gave me
an all clear, my Rheumatologist saw nothing of concern from a Lupus aspect, and
my Primary Care Physician honestly had no idea what to do with me. All of them
insisted this was just a byproduct of my anxiety.
So with a diagnosis of
hypoglycemia, pretty severe anxiety, and my new blood sugar monitor in hand, I
headed back off to college an hour and a half away. I wish I could say things
were just all rainbows, but they weren’t.
While the first few nights
were met with some invasive anxiety, the real trouble came on the first day of
classes. Upon entering the very first class on the very first day of this
semester, my heart rate spiked to 140 and the panic ensued. Thus began a flurry
of visits to the Health Center at my university, and visits to my Disability
Advocate.
Over the course of the
semester, I dropped from sixteen credit hours worth of classes to only ten. I
only take two classes on campus, and I’ve stopped participating in various
organizations that I care about.
To try to figure this out,
and finally understand, I’ve been seeing an endocrinologist. Though various tests came back relatively
normal, my endocrinologist thought he knew the reason for all my problems:
POTS.
So here I am, almost six
months after all this began, a week into steroids meant to help my life become
normal again.
But the truth is, I don’t
even know what normal is anymore.
I’ve spent months living a
real life nightmare.
I have been incredibly vulnerable
throughout this whole journey, but there are so many aspects of this journey
that I’ve kept hidden. Not only is POTS a nightmare, but the anxiety that has
grown over it is unforgiving.
I spent weeks unable to
eat due to the fear that I was dying. I spent months monitoring my heart rate,
watching for any spikes, anything irregular. I have been so obsessed with
everything involving my body that I can hardly function.
Finding out it was POTS
all along was ‘nice’, but this has become a prison. The damage is done; the
Anxiety is so real.
I can’t go grocery shopping,
I can’t hang out with friends, I have every hospital and urgent care mapped out
everywhere I go, and to be so real right now: I can’t even shower without
knowing someone is nearby.
What I’m living through
right now is quite frankly, Hell on Earth. It is for me, and I’m making it the
same way for those around me. Chronic Illness is so unforgiving, so selfish,
and it doesn’t care who it drags down with it. I’ve not only successfully ruined
my life, but also that of those who I care about the most. I cannot thank these
people enough.
It has been the absolute
worst six months of my entire being. I would give anything to just go back to
normal, but like I said before, I don’t remember what normal is. Everyone
around me tells me that I’m brave, that I’m courageous.
But I’m not.
I live every single day with
such irrational fear that I’m dying. I am so afraid that I won’t ever go back
to the way I was, that this will never end. There are more Doctor’s
appointments on the horizon, more mountains to climb, and I just hate doing
this. I hate dragging everyone down with me, I hate it. I’m terrified that I
won’t live up to the person that I could’ve been before this all started. How
can I help people if I can’t even help myself?
But I want to be able to
do this. I want to beat this. I want to be someone everyone is proud of. I want to be a world-changer. I want to do
things MY way, NOT my illness’ way.
So, with all that being
said, here’s hoping. Here’s to pushing myself to new things, to doing things
that make me afraid. Here’s to standing up to my Tachycardia, to my fear, to
the irrational thoughts that plague my mind. Here’s to better and brighter
days.
I know there is a lot of strength
in admitting that you’re afraid. That acknowledging something like that is the
first step to getting better. So here I am, admitting it.
I’m not brave, I’m not
strong, and I am so, so afraid, but I am determined to get better, so I will.
I hope.